Going via a psychological block is a positive hearth option to deplete your gymnast’s confidence.
Throughout a psychological block your gymnast sees all the opposite gymnasts round her doing abilities that she desires to do or might do prior to now.
She typically will get left within the nook to work on her personal, shedding the constructive consideration of her coach.
She’s caught making an attempt to do abilities that she was in a position to do as a a lot youthful gymnast. In actual fact, she would possibly see all of the youthful gymnasts doing even tougher abilities.
And worst of all, she would possibly simply wish to stop gymnastics as a result of she’s caught on this destructive cycle that critically depletes any final ounce of confidence she has.
Mockingly, among the finest methods to maneuver via a psychological block is to construct up confidence. However you’ll be able to see the irony in all of it. Not doing abilities lowers her confidence. But she wants confidence to do her abilities.
So how does your gymnast construct up confidence whereas going via a psychological block?
1. Give attention to what she CAN do and never what she might do.
There’s a massive distinction in these refined phrases. Usually gymnasts going via psychological blocks give attention to what they’re not in a position to do. They consider the previous and the way they used to have the ability to try this talent. In actual fact, coaches and fogeys would possibly even encourage them to recollect how they may try this talent at one time.
However proper now your gymnast is not in a position to do her abilities as a result of her mind retains placing the brakes on. I coined the time period “placing on the brakes” when referring to psychological blocks as a result of that is precisely what it feels wish to your gymnast. She desires to do her talent however she will’t, as if one thing is stopping her. And so typically her focus is on what she canNOT do, quite than what she will do.
As a substitute, it is essential to your gymnast to give attention to the issues she CAN do. Whether or not that is asking for a spot or going to a better development/drill of the talent, she must preserve her thoughts on the CAN and never the CAN’T.
2. Construct up belief along with her mind.
The extra her mind trusts her, the upper her confidence stage shall be. Constructing belief along with her mind is doing issues that make her mind know she is listening to it. When a gymnast goes via a psychological block, she’s going to typically push in opposition to what her mind is telling her.
For instance, if she’s making an attempt to do her again handspring on beam and it is not working, she’s going to typically preserve making an attempt to go for it again and again. However doing so causes her mind to not belief her as a result of her mind is telling her to not go for it.
Psychological blocks are difficult as a result of they do not require pushing in opposition to the mind. They require deep listening to what the mind is asking for so as to really feel secure.
So how does your gymnast construct up belief (and due to this fact construct up confidence)?
She offers her mind what it wants.
Is her mind too scared to go for it on excessive beam by herself? However it is going to go if she has a spot? Then constructing belief means asking for the spot.
Is her mind placing on the brakes when she tries to attach her spherical off to her again handspring? However she’ll join in on the TumblTrak? Then going to the TumblTrak builds belief.
The purpose is for her mind to know she is listening to what it wants. The extra belief she builds, the upper her confidence climbs.
3. Keep within the current second.
When your gymnast is coping with psychological blocks, it is probably that she is reminiscing concerning the previous when she might do her abilities or she is worrying about not with the ability to do her abilities in the longer term (i.e. meet season is arising).
What she probably shouldn’t be doing is remaining within the current second.
When she’s caught in worry-land about what would possibly occur if she would not get her abilities or caught lamenting over misplaced abilities, her confidence takes an enormous dip. And that can preserve her in her psychological block for for much longer than she must be there.
The purpose is to focus in every second on what she CAN do (as per #2 above) and do numerous numbers of that development. If she’s having a “good” day when she will do a sure development nicely, even when it is not the complete talent, then she wants to remain there and do these progressions again and again. This builds confidence. This builds belief. This builds muscle reminiscence.
So your gymnast wants to remain within the current second and take advantage of every second. It serves her nicely to cease dwelling on the previous or worrying concerning the future.
4. Give attention to her personal path.
Comparability shouldn’t be solely the thief of pleasure but in addition an enormous contributor of low confidence. It is pure to your gymnast to see what her teammates are doing and use that as a foundation for comparability.
However when she will get caught specializing in what different gymnasts are doing that she will’t do, then her confidence takes one other massive dip.
One analogy I like is for gymnasts to place their “blinders” on. Identical to horses are given headgear to put on to cowl their peripheral view throughout horse races, gymnasts must give attention to their very own journey and cease wanting round at others.
One factor I stress within the Stick It Woman Academy in my weekly group trainings is that each gymnast goes via their very own journey, on their very own time, in their very own manner. There isn’t any one proper option to do gymnastics.
However when your gymnast will get caught on evaluating herself and pondering she’s not on the best path, her confidence goes to take a success.
As a substitute, your gymnast must give attention to her journey and the place it’s main her.
One other massive factor I stress with the gymnasts I work with is that each psychological block is a blessing. There may be at all times one thing that comes from it that your gymnast would not have in any other case – whether or not it is a greater understanding of her mind or studying perseverance or being extra mentally versatile. And that is a vital piece of her journey.
So staying targeted on herself and her journey is the 4th key to increase confidence via a psychological block.
Going via a psychological block is complicated, irritating, exhausting, embarrassing, and scary all of sudden. Simply bear in mind, your gymnast has by no means “misplaced” her talent, even when she’s blocked. It’s her mind placing on the brakes and stopping her. There’s a very massive distinction as a result of as soon as gymnasts understand the talent remains to be there, they lean into studying why their mind is stopping them which helps them get to the foundation of the psychological block.
Lastly, gymnasts going via psychological blocks must work additional onerous on their confidence due to all of the hits it takes throughout their struggles. Subsequently confidence must be an enormous focus of getting a gymnast again to doing her abilities. The 4 methods above are an excellent place to start out when serving to your gymnast get via her psychological block.
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