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ALICE BELLANDI: “IT IS HARD TO FIND HAPPINESS AGAIN”

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Wellbeing is the theme of World Judo Day 2024 and forces every particular person to actually think about, what’s that we do to make sure we’re wholesome, bodily and emotionally nicely? What brings you happiness? Lately it has develop into much less of a taboo topic, to debate ones psychological well being and the influence it might have on a person. World Judo Day unites the worldwide judo neighborhood in celebrating the game’s values, together with respect, perseverance, and mutual support.

Inside sports activities this can be very prevalent, the mounting pressures of main occasions, how to deal with loss, with accidents, all is now extensively mentioned on social media, and by doing so, opens the door to hunt assist. It’s such a broad topic that additionally delves in to the realm of social media and the risks it might pose, like something, whether it is abused. So with World Judo Day 2024, we glance to see how the concentrate on nicely being serves as a reminder of the game’s enduring energy to remodel lives, in addition to carry stability to physique, thoughts, and spirit.

For World Judo Day, we spoke with the brand new Olympic Champion of the -78kg class, Alice BELLANDI (ITA). It has been a rollercoaster journey for the younger Italian who competed within the Tokyo Olympic Video games within the -70kg class, handled excessive lows following her Olympic debut, and has grown a lot since. So how does wellbeing look to Bellandi?

Since profitable her Olympic gold medal in Paris, one would anticipate there to be pure pleasure and happiness that adopted, however Bellandi, as at all times, was sincere and open about her expertise and urges others to share and search assist when it’s wanted.

My journey to Tokyo was fairly arduous, every thing that got here earlier than, I had issues with weight reducing, 12 or 13kg each event, and it wasn’t as a result of I wasn’t skilled, this was what individuals mentioned, they solely noticed the quantity on the dimensions and never the larger issues behind it. I wasn’t doing nicely in my private life, I used to be having coach points, meals was my secure place is the one means I can clarify it. Earlier than Covid, I used to be in direct qualification, after which this additional yr, in a class I used to be struggling in with my weight, it was my worst second. Throughout lockdown I used to be 90kg, and I attempted to struggle in -78kg as we got here out of lockdown however our group couldn’t compete due to constructive instances.

It was my want to keep it up and see it out till Toyko, it wasn’t simple although, within the final competitors, the World Championships, I used to be not direct quota, and I misplaced my second spherical. You know the way these items can change and I used to be ready. Lastly Tokyo was a breath that I might take, for me it was one of many happiest moments in my profession at that time. However I felt like I used to be in a cage, every thing felt tight on me, like I couldn’t explode. In each struggle, I simply felt tight, one thing was burning that I simply couldn’t get out, and I used to be struggling with despair. I felt alone. In that second, the individual serving to me was Frank Bruyere, he supported me, at this level I had left my different coach a couple of months in the past. In spite of everything of this, I felt like I couldn’t get any decrease, I used to be simply mendacity on the bottom.

Put up Tokyo, Bellandi defined she had two selections, to surrender, or to restart. In fact, the present Olympic Champion selected the latter, and with {that a} new class, a brand new coach, Antonio Ciano, a brand new psychological coach and nutritionist, however she admits that there was lots that wanted therapeutic. This psychological coach has allowed Bellandi to see extra clearly, management her feelings and never enable them to regulate her, whether or not it’s on or off the tatami.

In all of this I found that these fights, usually are not actually about judo, it’s psychological. I keep in mind each single second of my semi remaining in Doha, to be sincere I considered it for six months after, however on this event I might see it from one other viewpoint. Even now I can see that my Olympic medal was not the vital half, however my journey over the previous three years, each step that I took, as a result of I do know what it was like, to lie on that ground in the dead of night, I keep in mind.

The day that I gained was the most effective day of my life, however you anticipate that the Olympic gold medal is happiness, but it surely isn’t like that. The second was glad, however I’m going to be sincere, I had a extremely powerful time afterwards. Everybody thinks having that medal round your neck brings you happiness, that you haven’t any proper to really feel anything now you’re champion, such as you’re not human anymore. I used to be pissed off, I might really feel despair once more, I felt the alarm however fortuitously I had the best individuals round me. After one thing that massive, it’s arduous to search out happiness once more. Now I attempt to normalise issues and I search happiness in moments, in small issues and having fun with what you’re doing. I’m discovering methods to make myself glad, making an attempt new sports activities, seeking to examine.

Standing ready of nice expertise at solely 25 years outdated, Bellandi has phrases of knowledge for something combating their nicely being, be it bodily or psychological.

My recommendation is that sharing is the highly effective software me have, we’re by no means alone if we share. While you do, you perceive what number of different individuals have been in the identical place. I’ve acquired so many messages and now I do know, I’m not alone. You would possibly really feel damaged, alone just like the little duckling, you are feeling ‘incorrect’ in life and while you begin to share, you hear related tales, that’s while you perceive, asking for assistance is nothing to be ashamed of, it’s regular. One factor I discovered, is that simply because we stay on this physique, we don’t know every thing about ourselves.

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Alice Bellandi

Writer: Thea Cowen


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